What We Seek, We Will Find

The Paradox of Seeking

In our search for answers—whether through Google, social media, or the vastness of the world—we uncover a profound paradox: what we seek shapes what we find. The mind acts like a magnet, drawing in reflections of its focus. If we seek negativity, we’ll find evidence to justify it. If we crave validation, the world will show us mirrors to our worth—or lack thereof. This is the paradox of seeking: the world doesn’t just reveal itself to us; it reflects the intentions of our search.

The irony is, the answers we chase are often rooted within us. The more frantically we look outward, the farther we drift from clarity. Peace, joy, and understanding do not come from the search itself but from the awareness of why we are seeking. The real question isn’t “What am I looking for?” but rather, “What is my mind creating in this search?”

Only when we realize this can we begin to shift our searches—not toward what we want to see, but toward truth and meaning that transcend the surface noise.

Examples of Seeking Conspiracy Theories vs. Seeking Truth

  1. The Moon Landing
    • Seeking a Conspiracy: If you approach the moon landing believing it was a hoax, your search will lead you to websites, forums, and videos claiming staged footage, shadows that don’t align, or claims NASA faked it to win the space race.
    • Seeking Truth: A search for credible sources provides scientific explanations, testimonies from astronauts, and evidence such as moon rock analysis, all pointing to the landing being real.
  2. Vaccines and Microchips
    • Seeking a Conspiracy: Search “vaccines microchips” and you’ll uncover narratives claiming government tracking or population control agendas, reinforced by anecdotal posts and skewed interpretations of patents or studies.
    • Seeking Truth: Searching scientifically validated studies or expert analyses highlights the overwhelming evidence of vaccine safety and efficacy, debunking myths about microchips or nefarious motives.
  3. Flat Earth
    • Seeking a Conspiracy: Search “proof the Earth is flat,” and you’ll encounter groups that interpret flight paths, optical illusions, and misapplied physics as proof of a flat Earth.
    • Seeking Truth: A search rooted in curiosity about Earth’s shape leads to centuries of evidence, from ancient astronomy to modern satellite imagery, clearly demonstrating Earth’s spherical nature.
  4. 5G and Health Risks
    • Seeking a Conspiracy: Searching “5G health dangers” brings you to claims of mind control, cancer risks, and unverified “expert” opinions amplified by fear-mongering.
    • Seeking Truth: Research through reputable health organizations or peer-reviewed studies reveals no scientific evidence linking 5G to harmful health effects at current exposure levels.
  5. Hidden Elites Controlling the World
    • Seeking a Conspiracy: Searching “elites controlling the world” leads to narratives about secret societies, shadow governments, and global manipulation, often rooted in unverifiable anecdotes or fabricated evidence.
    • Seeking Truth: Investigating systemic issues like income inequality, lobbying, and geopolitics provides tangible insights into how power dynamics and wealth influence the world, without veering into baseless theories.

The Core Lesson:
What we search for online or in life will lead us to evidence that confirms our bias. The algorithms of search engines and social media often amplify this effect, reinforcing our beliefs instead of challenging them. To seek truth, we must adopt a mindset of curiosity and skepticism, cross-referencing credible sources and questioning our own biases, rather than chasing narratives that align only with what we want to find.

On Being Opinionated and/or Judgemental…

In a spiritual sense, being opinionated and being judgmental reflect two distinct approaches to engaging with the world and others, each carrying different energies and outcomes. While both can lead to self-awareness and freedom if observed mindfully, their underlying motives and manifestations differ.

Being Opinionated

  • Definition: Holding a strong belief or perspective based on personal values, experiences, or understanding.
  • Energy: Rooted in self-expression, it can be neutral or positive if shared without attachment.
  • Pathway to Freedom: It allows you to know your authentic self, your values, and your boundaries. Observing your opinions helps you recognize what resonates with your truth and what doesn’t.
  • Potential Trap: When overly attached to opinions, it can lead to rigidity and resistance to others’ truths.

How to Observe Being Opinionated:

  1. Notice the Energy: Is your opinion shared to express truth or to prove a point? Truth flows; proving a point constrains.
  2. Check for Resistance: Do you feel tension when others disagree, or are you open to other perspectives?
  3. Question the Origin: Ask, “Why do I hold this opinion? Is it serving growth or ego?”
  4. Practice Non-Attachment: Express your view but remain open to change if deeper truths emerge.

Being Judgmental

  • Definition: Forming a conclusion about someone or something, often with a sense of superiority or moral positioning.
  • Energy: Rooted in separation; it often arises from fear, insecurity, or unhealed wounds.
  • Pathway to Freedom: Judgments reflect what remains unhealed or unintegrated within us. Observing judgments helps us recognize and dissolve inner blocks to compassion.
  • Potential Trap: Judging reinforces duality and distances us from oneness.

How to Observe Being Judgmental:

  1. Recognize the Feeling: Judgments are often accompanied by irritation, frustration, or a sense of self-righteousness.
  2. Identify the Mirror: Ask, “What does this judgment say about me? What in me feels threatened or incomplete?”
  3. Shift to Compassion: Replace judgment with curiosity. For example, instead of “Why are they like this?” ask, “What might they be experiencing?”
  4. Embrace Unity: Practice seeing others as reflections of yourself, recognizing shared humanity and divine essence.

Key Differences

AspectBeing OpinionatedBeing Judgmental
FocusExpression of personal truthEvaluation of others or situations
EnergyCan be constructive or neutralOften divisive and negative
Spiritual LessonKnowing your authentic selfHealing inner wounds and seeing oneness
Growth OpportunityPractice humility and opennessCultivate compassion and acceptance

Practical Observations for Both:

  1. Pause and Reflect: When reacting strongly, pause and ask yourself, “Is this an opinion or a judgment? Where is it coming from?”
  2. Journal Daily: Write down moments you felt opinionated or judgmental. Reflect on their impact on your peace.
  3. Meditate on Awareness: Use mindfulness to observe the space between stimulus and reaction. This gap reveals the origin of your response.
  4. Seek Higher Perspectives: Whenever possible, ask, “What would love, unity, or higher wisdom see in this situation?”

Both pathways invite us to transcend ego-based reactions and align with higher states of awareness. Observing these reactions without judgment creates space for profound spiritual growth.

The Inner Depths of Your Why

The journey of asking “why” can be likened to peeling layers of an onion—each layer reveals deeper truths about ourselves and the world around us. There isn’t a definitive number of “why” layers because:

  1. Depth of the Question: The layers depend on the complexity of the initial “why.” Simple questions may reach their core quickly, while existential or spiritual inquiries can seem endless.
  2. Perspective and Awareness: As we evolve, our capacity to perceive deeper truths grows, and so does the potential number of “why” layers.
  3. The Infinite Nature of Self: Some traditions suggest that the self is boundless. Therefore, exploration never truly ends; it transforms as our understanding expands.
  4. Purpose of the Exploration: Sometimes, the aim isn’t to find an ultimate “why” but to embrace the process of questioning as a way to grow, learn, and connect with our inner truth.

The key is to recognize that each layer of “why” is not just a path to an answer but a mirror reflecting a part of ourselves we are ready to see.